Love is such an important thing to us all; even to those who aren't conscious of it's importance, there is a fundamental need to be loved and share love at the center of each of us. Yet, how many people share what real love means, what it truly is to give unconditional love to another. In order to give love to another, you must have it for yourself. There must be within you a space you have created, a universe essentially filled with love of the self, and love of that which you have created...your life...it is after this creation within yourself, you can then share that creation, that universe with another. Respectively, that also means in order to really share in unconditional love, that other person must have created that same space; a space of peace, wholeness, gratitude.. without this type of exchange, there will always be imbalance and disharmony within the relationship. There will be a tug of war between ego and fear, and love and faith. When you are able to share in unconditional love, you are able to be present for your loved one, open-hearted and aware of their energy and communication. This requires a stillness and peace within you, to be present to listen and feel someone else's passions and dreams...their experience. The paradox is, if you have not built this kind of presence for yourself, this ability to be present and feel without ambivalence or judgment; than how can you possibly do it for another. You can only share what you have to share, give what you have to give; anything else is an illusion the ego creates to feel secure. What is ironic, is that this type of behavior is what keeps people from having healthy, deep emotionally connected relationships; even though that's what drives them to have the behavior, because it's coming from a space of lack. When we are filled up with our own love, and contentment in life, then we have a space to offer another to come share with us...It is about giving and sharing, not seeking and needing...no one can fill that space but you and your source of love, God or as some would say the Universe. Blessings and love to you always, Namaste Carrie Lynn

How many of your relationships are based on love, trust, and understanding…how many of you do things without the thought of what will happen next…do you do things for your partner, children, and your friends without keeping track of who does what…do you give each other space to be individuals and express each other’s natural talents…do you show loving support of their talents without become jealous or envious of what they create and manifest…

It is important to mention also that when we speak of these relationships, and you have answered yes to these ideals…yet…part of you feels that your partner or friend is not vibrating in this same space…then please know this is your life…your experience…and it is up to you to design a life that is happy and fulfilling for you...it is loving yourself to choose relationships that are rewarding and promote your joy and growth…it is very empowering when we can detach from these unbalanced relationships with love…sending blessings and light on their journey…fearlessly walking on your own unique path that is authentic to you and your beingness…

Mastering the ego has been an interesting mountain to climb…and each time I pause to witness where I have come and look at the beautiful view…it is more inspiring to keep on climbing…we are never leaving people behind…or abandoning them…as my ego has tried to have me believe in the past…for they can climb…they can walk…they can choose…

All of us here on this beautiful Mother Earth have the same opportunities…we can watch the magic of the sunrise and sunset…we can feel the touch wind on our face and hear the trees blowing together in music…we can stare at the majesty of the Moon and her stars…we each can choose to sing, dance, and laugh together in pure love…each moment we choose the happiness of our lives…no one else is responsible…or can make that choice for you…happiness is our choice…and love flows through us and is shared when we allow it to be free…

Blessings and love to you! Namaste, Carrie Lynn